FROM BULLSHIT TO BRILLIANCE Getting Over You to Be True to You

As StraightArrow I am called to help people heal and get straight with themselves and achieve Mastery, health and more fun and freedom in their lives. What takes us down is that we believe the lies we tell ourselves everyday. Intelligent people give it all up for making excuses, finding reasons and in reality, avoiding truth. Not that we do it on purpose it is a long developed pattern that can be pretty unconscious and changed.

Since these patterns are commonly accepted, we can get away with them in some ways in society, by people who want to believe the lie, but in truth, we are caught. Because of the lies, we experience pain and disease, confusion, depression, and breakdowns and challenges that continue to turn in on us in health, relationships and business.

The only way to know a lie is to raise your awareness and pay attention to what you say and how you feel. At first the knowing is subtle. We all have a truth meter that we have learned to override. Catch and define the lies, learn the hooks, release them, and own truth and change.

We each have challenges on our life walk unique to us. Learning our own fears, patterns, attachments and codes, then healing and releasing them, allow our brilliance to shine.

TRUTH IS ALWAYS HIDDEN IN PLAIN SIGHT

You might think that truth makes you vulnerable, when in fact others can see and hear your truth better than you because they are removed from it. What makes us vulnerable is denial of our truth that others can use against us. When we know truth, we are in the drivers seat and know how to navigate our life.

We might believe that if we tell the truth and ask for what we want, there are consequences of rejection and attack. The truth is that we achieve and develop strength, love,  freedom and fun.

Truth heals. Lies separate us from each other and us, in all ways.

Brilliance comes when we stand back from a neutral place of high vibration and unconditional love and acceptance, and access and live the highest truth in all areas of our life. This is an evolutionary journey of discovery, discernment and change.

When we remove the bullshit, the brilliance and beauty of us shines bright as the diamond that we are.

Challenge yourself to stop the BS, and let the truth lead you to the best places.

Enjoy the Journey,

Janet StraightArrow

If you would like to work on this and more, call Janet today.

www.bethemedicine.com 973-647-2500 Janet@bethemedicine.com

TESTIMONIALS ABOUT WORKING WITH JANET

“Janet StraightArrow is a gift you give yourself.”

“In a session with Janet StraightArrow, transformation and rebirth occurs so effortlessly and naturally you are ready to move clearly into new directions and enjoy your life and health.”

“You may come for the powerful energy that makes you feel so good and clear and happy for days. Later you realize that your life is completely different and that your perspective is full of hope and new life.”

“You are so busy listening, laughing and experiencing that by the end of a class or session you realize how much you learned, changed and moved more deeply into you in a very positive way.”

“Janet heals and teaches with common sense, logic and wisdom. She takes the things I have learned to deeper places that actually create change. Her teachings, tools and practices move you and make healing change immediately.”

“When I meet with StraightArrow on the phone or in person I immediately relax and enjoy a feeling of safety and caring. Janet listens and hears my body, mind and spirit and translates their messages to help me help myself.”

“Working with Janet StraightArrow is an experience, you learn without feeling like you are being taught, and you heal without effort or struggle.”

“As soon as I make an appointment with Janet I feel confident. Anxiety and fear begin to subside and I begin to feel better and ready to move through any problems to solutions, the process has already begun.”

“Laughter and crying within minutes of one another is bound to happen when you work with Janet StraightArrow, you feel both fully and with respect and wonder.”

“Janet StraightArrow is a precious treasure; a rare individual who knows the truth, speaks it and most importantly lives it herself.  She emanates divine love which touches the souls of all who are open.  Her specialty is the process of healing, which leads to the remembrance and embodiment of ones whole self.  As a result health is restored, relationships flourish and the mind becomes clear.  I have never met anyone as extraordinarily wise, honest and compassionate as Janet.  Yet, despite her immeasurable worth and abundance of energy she is very humble and patient.  When I thought I had lost myself forever the universe led me to Be The Medicine.  The process I was given was simple, efficient and as I soon came to learn: completely revolutionary.  Janet is a visionary, light years ahead of this world but lovingly here to teach us how to bridge the gap.  If you are ready to invest in an abundant life filled with constant health, happiness, truth, beauty and light, look no further as StraightArrow will show you the way. “ Ariana L.

“I am so grateful for the work I have done with Janet and Be the Medicine in sessions and classes. Not only do I feel more comfortable in my body and life, I notice how important the work we do is to my profession and ability to be and do more than I knew possible. My gifts and purpose are unfolding with ease. The story of my life is becoming rich with deeper love and experience and losing the drama of my life before this time. In taking advanced classes of the several modalities I have studied over the years, I see how this inner work I have done in between segments has moved me light years ahead of my peers in many ways. None of us were aware of the power or possibility of who we are and how much more fully and freely we can learn, experience and live.” Wendy Kreiss-Parkin, Massage Therapist, Channel, Energy Worker

Janet and I have been working together on and off for over 2 years, and during that time I’ve been able to ground myself in a way that had previously been elusive for me. I took classes, tried different modalities, Reiki III, and went to different churches, but none of it was the path to being fully aware and in tune with myself. I’ve struggled my whole life with depression and I’ve searched for spiritual guidance. I found a lot of great pieces, but I was still not feeling whole. For over a year, and periodically even now, I will crash and burn: work pressure, social pressure, disappointments, and fears that come up in life will rob me of the fun of living- I get overwhelmed.  Just talking with Janet, even just on the phone, would resolve anything that was pressing.  She has been far more effective than a therapist, mainly because she is so intuitive as well as a profound energetic healer. She also has a high level of professionalism, which is important to me as well.  She will able to feel what I’m feeling and why, add some much lacking clarity, and bring in the divine to pass through me to clear off the negative energy, which always allows me to come back to feeling good. I’m becoming more self-reliant and self-loving, and able to build on where I’m at in my life.

Dee Wartenburg Medical Masseuse, Energy Healer

 

I have been involved in self-fulfillment programs for over 20 years, and yet it has been since my work with Janet that I have been able to delve into deeper areas regaining a greater sense of self. Just last week I learned that by opening my heart was not about giving away a part of me. Through a simple exercise that allowed the duality to dissipate and create the space for compassion to guide the potential for what my heart is now capable of.” Jeff Oras, Holistic Dentist

 

Thank You From Elisa Maggio in Linked In

“Janet StraightArrow is the rainbow of love! With the skilled hands of a surgeon, Janet is able to help you reach inside to the deepest, most hidden places of yourself and give you tools to shine the brightest, most powerful light for personal & professional healing! Janet is a wonderful tour guide, providing direction and possibilities for healing as you walk your path! She is very personable, creative, and nurturing to all she meets. It is an honor and a pleasure to have her walking alongside me! Namaste’”

Service Category: Career Coach

Year first hired: 2010 (hired more than once)

Top Qualities: Great Results, Expert, High Integrity Be The Medicine

 

ARE YOU READY TO LIVE OUT OF THE BOX?

 

As kids some of us liked to crayon outside of the lines of the picture. It was the rebel in us, but we knew something, we do not fit into others expectations or forms. Laughing, some of us would have rather been wrong to others, and free to be us.

 

After years of training to live in the world, to fit in, and know the roles and the rules, now as adults many of us find that the boxes of reality that we are expected to live do not fit us. Looking to family, culture, teachers, religion, government and other authorities, to know and see us, offers us many confusing perspectives.

 

Living from the inside out requires change in all we were taught. At first we might think we are alone and nothing, as we explore our inner space. The truth is we are full and more than we ever imagined.

 

Awakening the self and living it can be the best adventure of our life. It is like a treasure hunt full of tricks and traps, freedom and new life, as we learn to follow the leading of truth.

 

You have a place in and out of the box. When we learn to live us and live free, we find our place in society, and us, easily.

 

Begin by asking you these questions often.

 

• Who am I?
• What do I think?
• What do I feel?
• Where am I in my life or this situation?

 

We begin to feel our inner truth and awaken the compass to being us now. Following the truth of you, exploring your options and opportunities frees you from prior programming and restriction.

 

You are limitless, loving and whole and a joy to awaken and be in your life today.

 

Ask the above questions often. They will change, evolve and become clearer.

 

Enjoy the Journey,

 

Janet StraightArrow

 

Janet invites you to BE THE MEDICINE , and Live Mastery in Everyday Life.

 

A Practical, Spiritual, Life and Health Coach with StraightArrow precision and expanded perspectives, Janet offers wisdom, knowledge, focus and insight, to help you make your life work for you. In business, relationships, health and all areas of life, Janet sees and hears things that are often overlooked, and has in depth solutions for you to employ immediately.

 

www.bethemedicine.com 973-647-2500 Janet@bethemedicine.com

 

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GETTING TO ACCEPTANCE AS A KEY TO PEACE, HEALTH AND HAPPINESS

When we struggle with people, situations, events and activities, it is often because we have a lot of rules, fear, beliefs or ideals that are conflicting with what has occurred.

Unwinding the emotion and conflict. requires you to step back as an observer and see things from a higher place.

Its not easy to move into this, when you are attached to how things are “supposed” to be. We can see things from many angles, and still come up hurt, angry or confused.

Often we want things and people to be different than who or what they are, so much that we cannot see the forest from the trees, or the truth from the lies.

The lies are what we want to be, and the truth is what is.

In these past few weeks many of us have been face to face with conflict inside and out. Things and people and situations are not the perfect way we desire. We do not want to change, or set boundaries, and yet we must in order to resolve conflict.

The universe, or energy that is affecting us, comes through people, events and challenges.

The higher place to observe from and begin to live, is with neutrality, non attached, which means letting go and realizing that what is, is and who people are, they are, and from here you can navigate, make peace with what is, take necessary action, or not, and move forward out of the emotional war zone.

Pulling yourself out, is detaching from emotions, the role you play, and the judgment of self and other, which allows you to let go, and find that comfy place inside, to be free.

When you find you are upset, feel disappointment and pain, see how this might be in your mind and how you can free your mind to be with what is and find peace.

Enjoy the Journey,

Janet StraightArrow

Be The Medicine, Awaken To Be Free To Be and Live the Power of You!

Call for private sessions and join us for events and classes.

www.bethemedicine.com 973-647-2500 Janet@bethemedicine.com

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Look for more special programs and sessions coming soon.

 

TRUTH – THE KEY TO SUCCESS IN EVERYTHING

In nineteen eighty-seven the stock market crashed after a consistent rise in real estate prices and many things. I was a mortgage banker at the time, while deciding on a career. I had just completed my degree in Psychology and knew that eventually I would be in a profession helping people, and also had goals to support my family.

My success depended on Real Estate agents referring me clients to assist in securing a mortgage. After the crash, Realtors were in shock and many were feeling hopeless. After six months of struggling to get business, I decided that since people always move, no matter the market, I had to go to the source of the business and become an agent.

Family and friends told me that I was too nice to be a successful agent. Real Estate agents were right up there with used car sales people in respect and expectations for lying. I told them that I was going to change that paradigm.

SUCCESS WHEN MANY ARE SUFFERING

Two years later, after many agents left the business, and others were struggling and discouraged, the local Board of Realtors asked me to teach a class in how I was so successful in this market. I have always been happy to share and support others in all ways, so I agreed to speak and share my secrets of success.

There was a full house of Realtors who were both seasoned, and newer agents, in the room. They were expecting charts and handouts and instead I gave them wisdom and simple, logical and insightful marketing tips, and new ways to look at people and how to get their listings sold.

The first thing I told them was that they had to tell the truth. A pin could drop in that room. Truth was not what brokers told them to use as a way to close transactions. Since truth was how I had always lived my life, it was a natural for me to use in any business, and life circumstance.

Manipulation, lying and control was not something I appreciated or fell for. I was a good sales person and focused on helping people first, using acute awareness and creative marketing by looking at the way people bought and needed to see things, I looked at who might want to buy a home and focused on finding out how to reach them.

I also helped people make good decisions in buying homes and helped them stay real in price, location and lifestyle so that they did not overspend or buy too far away from work and schools and other considerations that they would regret later.

Agents would think I was nuts because I was not quick to close a sale. I wanted a sale that would close and people would be happy afterwards and all along the way.

When you are steeped in manipulation and lies, you waste a lot of time and effort and dance in circles and fear. When you take the time to tune into what is needed to compete a task or a job, a perfect pathway opens up and all are satisfied.

I educated buyers and sellers, like I educate people today in healing and personal success. I was a partner in helping them reach their goals. Homes often do not sell because of lies and missing pieces, much like health and life requires full awareness.

By paying attention to truth first, I could see what worked and what did not. My goal was a sale for the best price for my clients, even if they were losing twenty-five percent of their investment.

TRUTH OFFERS ANSWERS TO DIFFICULT PROBLEMS

Many realtors focused on how hard it would be to sell a home, I focused on how we could get it done. I had multiple offers on homes in neighborhoods where no other homes in the neighborhood were shown. Realtors and buyers did not believe me until I had all parties sit down at the same table.

Telling truth helped me discover the best price that would really sell, and that the closer we were listed to that price, the more showings and offers and we had. By telling the truth, and helping people make the best of a challenging market, not only did we sell, when many did not, but we attained the highest price.

The common practice was to inflate the price to get the listing and have to fight sellers to reduce it. To me that began a relationship with dishonesty, was a huge waste of time and effort and often ended up with wasting six months, disappointed and losing money for all.

Instead I chose listings well, and only took listings where the buyers were ready to listen to truth, and ready to sell, and I did very well. I had been in the Title Insurance business in my first career from title searcher to partner of owner. I saw the cycles of the business and knew the responsibility in all areas.

Not only did I build my business well with clients, I had the respect and trust of other Realtors who loved doing business with me because they knew I would do my best to close the sale with them and help our clients.

There are so many subtleties in life, and if we are in illusion, avoidance and manipulation, we miss all the fun, and allowing things to work. Rather than lie, it is best to seek deeper truth of what is happening and why.

DEEPER TRUTH

Twice I had listings of people who had to sell. Their homes were shown daily. The price was right, the homes were perfect, and yet, no offers. Looking for truth, I realized that one of the owners in both homes did not want to sell, even though they had to.

By sitting down with each couple, and working through their fears and difficulty about moving on, we opened up the energy of the homes to take offers immediately. Other Realtors might have wanted to reduce the price as the only option, when that was not the problem.

Looking for deeper truth allows greater information, of both cause and solutions to come forth. You have to be open and ready for success, and do everything to support the process.

Healing, relationships, and all areas of life, work well on living the truth of what is. We have been caught in cycles to avoid, lie and not look for solutions but to take drugs, make up stories that do not make sense, and allow problems to manifest and continue.

Life is easy when you can break the cycles of illusion and find truth. You save time, money, and energy, and create an amazing successful life in all ways.

I love to help people heal from things they had no idea they could, solve relationship problems and succeed in business and life.

PS. The realtors did not follow my advice. They used my printer and delivery person to market their listings, and did not listen to the important keys to marketing, and working with people and each other. Both the printer and delivery person are still in business and doing well as a result, many Realtors are long gone.

Paying attention to the deeper truths and living them works in all areas.

Look to your life, and see where you can pay attention to truth, and live the life and health you desire.

Enjoy the Journey,

Janet StraightArrow

Be The Medicine, Live the Power of You!

Life and health coaching and healing in all areas – from relationships to health to career and more. Janet StraightArrow finds hidden truths that straighten out the challenges in your life.

Call Janet today to have her on your team and help you achieve success in all areas of your life.

973-647-2500 Janet@Bethemedicine.com www.bethemedicine.com

PS.  If you are or know a Realtor who would like to increase their success, give them this story. Janet has helped Realtors increase their business in surprising ways. They make more money in less time and have happier customers.

In 1999 StraightArrow bridged over to full time teaching, coaching, healing and writing, leaving her successful Real Estate career to help more people, and continue to research and create ways to make life and health easier with truth and joy.

 

BRIDGING PARADIGMS- LIVING BRILLIANCE – BACK TO THE FUTURE

2012 marked a movement like the 100^th monkey, we have moved into awareness and new life on a grander scale.

For hundreds of years we have been moving backwards, thinking we were moving forwards.

We live in a magical universe and world and have been living locked up in illusions of limitations and lies.

It is time to participate in the real world of love, truth, health, happiness, beauty and light.

In this world everything makes sense and we are free to be us in all of our brilliance.

There are no self-esteem issues since we are all amazing, beautiful people living our best selves and purpose.

Everyone supports everyone else because there is no fear of lack; everyone has all they need and more.

We each are telepathic and access the living library inside of us as the inner net instead of the need for an Internet. We learn and remember easily and travel at the speed of light, no airplanes needed.

We each know how to access our original blueprint of perfect health and maintain it each day automatically.

We die because it is time to leave this dimension of experience and ascend to the next one. We may also come back to visit to be of service.

Everyone is honored for his or her role in society, and in our life. Ancestors are wise ones, and women are revered and respected, as are men.

Various cultures and beliefs do not threaten ours, as we are all one reflecting various angles and perspectives of truth to one another.

Each person is their own medicine and emanates their gifts of love and healing as they live it themselves.

There is no need to complain, as we create our own reality, and we can change it in a nanosecond, and do.

Life is a gift of sharing your brilliance and receiving from others.

If you have any “buts” to these, it is a place to begin to heal and awaken in you.

We are all whole loving beautiful, brilliant beings. Live it now. No waiting.

The Power of Love. The Power of Truth. The Power of You. Be The Medicine.

Enjoy the journey,

Janet StraightArrow

www.bethemedicine.com 973-647-2500 Janet@bethemedicine.com

Call Janet for deeper awakening and as a guide and bridge to walk your path brilliantly.

 

THE ONLY WAY TO BE SAFE

The year after 911, I traveled by air more than in any other year before. People would ask me, aren’t you afraid when you fly? My answer was no, I pay attention to my body and self to feel my safety everyday.

If I do not feel safe, I listen and adjust accordingly. I choose to not live in fear after decades of clearing imprints of fear from my body, mind, emotions and life. Fear is not our friend to be given power to.

My body-mind tells me in subtle ways to change course often. We all have this inner guide within that speaks clearly and assists us when we learn to listen.

Safety is in attending to the subtle wisdom of the self, and not to the loud voice of hypnotic messages of fear that disconnect us from truth.

It is an important skill to develop, to feel, listen and learn from our knowing that is always active in each one of us.

It is important to clear and stop feeding imprints of fear, anger, ego, righteousness and traumas that have occurred earlier in our life that disconnect us from the truth of each moment. These are also subtle because we are used to listening to them, and keep us off track

To learn to focus on love, purity and peace allows all messages to find its correct place and meaning. If you focus on worry and fear you find more of that dominates.

This is a worthwhile journey and what Be The Medicine, Live the Power of You is all about, to live authentically with wisdom, knowledge and grace in all areas of your life.

Mental, emotional and spiritual intelligence grow as we live in our power and truth. All aspects of our life, health, relationships and work become better, and more enjoyable and productive.

Trust you, and that there is always safety in knowing. Each person has access to his or her innate ability to navigate safely in the world. It is a process and a practice to fully activate this ability. Practice, listen and learn and the more you follow that still small voice of truth and safety, the more you will trust it and learn to live free.

Enjoy the Journey,

Janet StraightArrow

Be the Medicine, Live the Power of You!

Please call for assistance in this process of awakening your abilities, trusting and living them. As we deepen our inner connection and we clear what we have carried for days, years and lifetimes of what is not truth, we can easily discern what is, and be free to be.

Coaching, healing and teaching occur in classes and sessions. Adults, children and people from all walks of life enjoy how working with Janet brings them into themselves immediately and with fun. Call today to see how you might work with Janet. Phone and Skype around the world and in person in NJ and other locations when traveling.

www.bethemedicine.com 973-647-2500 Janet@bethemedicine.com

 

UNCOMFORTABLE – CONFUSED? NAVIGATING CHANGE IN THESE TIMES.

 

What is changing is our awareness. We no longer see things or perceive life, others and us in the same way.

We feel different and may not recognize how we feel, and become uncomfortable and not understand what is occurring.

Everyone is experiencing awakening in many forms. Life is not what it once was.

The only thing we can count on is change.

We do not see people, including us, in the same way.

New things, interests and focus are becoming important as the old fall away easily.

Change is normal and good, even though it may be uncomfortable.

It’s okay to let go of who and what does not work for you anymore to make room for things and people that do.

We are not bad or wrong for moving on, and it is important to listen to us when we are ready to make changes.

There is always a shift point in making big changes. This can last a short or longer period. What is important is to be with it, and not force change, until it becomes clear.

This in between place allows us the space to adjust, and feel how we feel, so that we can make good choices in our evolving choices moving forward.

Learning to trust and know who we are, and what is best for us, is a journey in itself.

The rulebook is an inner one that has more power than the outer one we used to follow.

Knowing that it is not only okay, but also important to move forward is paramount.

As humans we have an inner guide, that is our natural knowing about ourselves that many have ignored.

When we do not listen to us we get in the way of our own progress.

We cannot always know why to move, change or act in ways that we feel are correct before we do, and that is where trust comes in.

Often we realize the mistake of not listening later. Remember this and listen and follow you the next time.

This is not a mystical intuition it is an innate knowing that guides us each day.

This is the one human skill that saves us from going off course of our best direction.

This is the connection that is waking up and becoming more dominant and is best to listen, learn and act on.

Change is good. Moving forward from an inner, wisdom place is important, comfortable and positive in every aspect of life.

No rushing, allow you to find your comfort in new arenas in your mind and your life.

Enjoy the Journey,

Janet StraightArrow

Be The Medicine, Live the Power of You!

StraightArrow has been a guide, teacher and healer for over two decades helping people balance body, mind, emotions, spirit and soul in practical, loving and fun ways in all areas of their lives successfully. Call Janet today for support and ease in all of your changes.

www.bethemedicine.com 973-647-2500 Janet@bethemedicine.com