We are afraid of love, to love and to be loved because of all of the fear and misperceptions that have been built into our ideas of love. Love is unconditional and free so if you love another it is about you feeling love and not them.

Love is our natural state, which has been diluted, protected and based on conditions that make it nothing like love at all. If you feel love for someone it is a gift that they inspired in you. Loving feelings are awakened in many people and do not need to be taken to another place.

We are addicted to the feeling and want more and we forget that it is the lover that is loving, and not the other. So quickly we want to attach labels, desires, expectations and reasons when love just is, and does not need anything else.

People get confused and want others to love them back in the same way – family, friends, and others that inspire love in you. Love with conditions is not love. We do not own or owe others because of love.

If someone treats you in an unloving way it is about him or her and not you. Each one of us is loveable. Fear, wounding, pain and more keep people detached from their loving nature. Heal these in you to find your true self.

Looking for love outside will never fulfill you when you are not in touch with and experiencing love in and for you. Love is our natural state inspired by our divine connection.

To pretend love or force love is painful and will hurt. Those that you share love with reflect the love in your own heart. If you reflect other that love it is perceived.

We have been taught to focus outside of us for wisdom, knowledge and love as well as approval and value. No one can give any of these to you except you. It is a practice to find these and well worth the exploration and discovery.

A genuine loving being loves all and does not harm or discriminate. Love is not sex, neediness, ownership, or relationship. Love is always everywhere and never dies.

Leaving someone can be for love instead of needing to make it ugly. Loving each other enough to let go is strength and allows healing and love to continue in other ways.

When you are in love everything is brighter and you can experience the beauty and blessings in life. You are more open and free and have better boundaries.

To be love, we heal what is not love in our thoughts, words, actions and memories, and love is always there, to awaken and transform and love evermore.

It took a lot of healing, a lot of hurting and a lot more healing to understand and experience this. Be brave, kind and find love inside and share it.

Enjoy the Journey,

Janet StraightArrow

Be The Medicine, Live the Power of You!

Join Janet in classes and sessions to awaken love, wisdom, happiness and health in you in many ways. 973-647-2500



About BeTheMedicine

Healer. Teacher. Shaman. Reiki Master, Writer. Medical Intuitive. Spiritual Counselor. Life Coach. Sage.
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